It's what everyone who is approaching their thirties wonders and what we ask ourselves once we're in the decade. So what changes in a matter of 12 months? A lot, but the truth is that it doesn't happen overnight, and it won't happen unless you want it to. I spent my 30th birthday hungover and … Continue reading What changes in your 30s
You're too aggressive. Why are you so confrontational? It would be best if you changed your tone. Sound familiar? Since the dawn of time, women have been expected to be the silent, agreeable party in the world. We're told we have emotions, and we act on them and not in a positive way. It's not … Continue reading Women are tired of being labelled aggressive.
For me heading back to study was a really big decision. Not only do i work full time but as it is for most people in their thirties i have to provide a full time income to survive. I weighed the long term goal i wanted; did i want to earn more money or do … Continue reading Thinking of studying?
Ah summer, the season we love for its holidays, warm nights and endless opportunities. There's something about a cocktail that just hits right in the sun matched with a cute outfit and your loved ones. With lockdown ending (hopefully for Victorians as well) the time is right to get out and drink something yummy but … Continue reading Summer Cocktails got me feeling good
First and foremost I will be the first to admit there is a lot of things i need to still learn and sometimes I wonder why life didn't come with a manual and if it did, is it available to watch instead of read!? While i think thirty is still young there is a few … Continue reading 10 things you should know by 30
Friendships come in waves, more often then not we don't stay in touch with friends from high school and work friends are great while you work with them. The friends you make in your twenties are often for life or for a season, enter your thirties and they're split into two groups - the friends … Continue reading How do we relate to our friends with kids and the ones without?
Turning thirty is a pretty big deal and i personally don't know why we put more pressure on ourselves to accomplish all these grand things by thirty, when surviving your twenties is hard enough and reason enough to celebrate the next decade. With COVID19 taking the year of 2020 away from us, it is pretty … Continue reading The Bucket list by 30 – how to deal when you don’t reach it.
I am petty - i know this, my friends know this. Not about everything, but when it comes to Facebook birthdays i am pretty much a seventh grader in a womans body. Before you wonder, yes i was also myspace top friend petty, I have grown out of that level but when i get the … Continue reading Why is saying happy birthday on Facebook a thing?