It's what everyone who is approaching their thirties wonders and what we ask ourselves once we're in the decade. So what changes in a matter of 12 months? A lot, but the truth is that it doesn't happen overnight, and it won't happen unless you want it to. I spent my 30th birthday hungover and … Continue reading What changes in your 30s
I am all for removing toxic people from your life; I've done it myself more times than I like to count, but the harsh truth is, sometimes I've been the toxic one. It's that icky feeling when you've done something and later wondered if you were in the wrong. The reverse of the shower arguments replaying what … Continue reading What if I’m the toxic one?
You're too aggressive. Why are you so confrontational? It would be best if you changed your tone. Sound familiar? Since the dawn of time, women have been expected to be the silent, agreeable party in the world. We're told we have emotions, and we act on them and not in a positive way. It's not … Continue reading Women are tired of being labelled aggressive.
Picture this: its 2am and you’re drunk eating a kebab in the Moroccan hotel lobby with your new tour friends, laughing at the mess of lettuce and sauce on the floor and all seems great in the world. Fast forward to nine hours later and you’ve already squatted over a dirty, nose hair burning smell of … Continue reading Food poisoning is on the low since Covid 19 and I’ve never been more grateful
I think it’s fair to say 2020 wasn’t what anyone expected; the Summer Olympics in Tokyo were meant to happen, our friends went mad over toilet paper, weddings were cancelled and the Euro trip that was booked and paid for had to be delayed until the unknown. The start of a new decade that had … Continue reading The year that we gained – 2020
Ill keep your secrets even if we aren’t friends, I always thought it was not just the decent thing to do but the normal thing. Recently, I learnt of an ex friend going out of her way to find a guy I had been with and attempting to not only shag him but slander me. … Continue reading Keeping secrets
. We didn't grow up in the era of influencers, we learnt the hard way like every other 80s born babe that blue eyeshadow can in fact be applied too much (My girl had it wrong). Bright yellow glitter lipstick won't get you a boyfriend and although it is easier now to apply make up … Continue reading How to keep your skin looking younger than your age
For me heading back to study was a really big decision. Not only do i work full time but as it is for most people in their thirties i have to provide a full time income to survive. I weighed the long term goal i wanted; did i want to earn more money or do … Continue reading Thinking of studying?
So the boy you like, doesn’t like you back anymore - big deal right !? Then why do you have crushing anxiety and a serious case of sad feels all wrapped up in a rejection sized sweater. Ever read the book 'He's just not that into you!?' Well I did, twice, and it's only now … Continue reading Dating is hard when you can’t even get a text back
We are so busy trying to make everyone else in our lives happy that we often forget to make ourselves happy, putting our friends or families well being before our own. It’s normal to not be happy all the time by the way, we do and will continue to question our own happiness over and … Continue reading Self love and Self care
Thirty is not the new twenty 