It's what everyone who is approaching their thirties wonders and what we ask ourselves once we're in the decade. So what changes in a matter of 12 months? A lot, but the truth is that it doesn't happen overnight, and it won't happen unless you want it to. I spent my 30th birthday hungover and … Continue reading What changes in your 30s
What if I’m the toxic one?
I am all for removing toxic people from your life; I've done it myself more times than I like to count, but the harsh truth is, sometimes I've been the toxic one. It's that icky feeling when you've done something and later wondered if you were in the wrong. The reverse of the shower arguments replaying what … Continue reading What if I’m the toxic one?
Women are tired of being labelled aggressive.
You're too aggressive. Why are you so confrontational? It would be best if you changed your tone. Sound familiar? Since the dawn of time, women have been expected to be the silent, agreeable party in the world. We're told we have emotions, and we act on them and not in a positive way. It's not … Continue reading Women are tired of being labelled aggressive.
The year that we gained – 2020
I think it’s fair to say 2020 wasn’t what anyone expected; the Summer Olympics in Tokyo were meant to happen, our friends went mad over toilet paper, weddings were cancelled and the Euro trip that was booked and paid for had to be delayed until the unknown. The start of a new decade that had … Continue reading The year that we gained – 2020
Ill keep your secrets even if we aren’t friends, I always thought it was not just the decent thing to do but the normal thing. Recently, I learnt of an ex friend going out of her way to find a guy I had been with and attempting to not only shag him but slander me. … Continue reading Keeping secrets
How to keep your skin looking younger than your age
. We didn't grow up in the era of influencers, we learnt the hard way like every other 80s born babe that blue eyeshadow can in fact be applied too much (My girl had it wrong). Bright yellow glitter lipstick won't get you a boyfriend and although it is easier now to apply make up … Continue reading How to keep your skin looking younger than your age
Thinking of studying?
For me heading back to study was a really big decision. Not only do i work full time but as it is for most people in their thirties i have to provide a full time income to survive. I weighed the long term goal i wanted; did i want to earn more money or do … Continue reading Thinking of studying?
Friend or Frenemy?
I knew a girl once who always made me feel like we were competing and it was pretty shitty feeling, everything that happened in our friendship made me question if we were really even friends. Often its the small things that we continue to excuse that turn into big monsters in our heads. Friends … Continue reading Friend or Frenemy?
Social media is hurting you more than you know
It's been spoken about consistently since our lives became so encompassed by social media, even more so during COVID has social media been more present in our lives and used to stay in touch with others. What people don't usually tell us when we follow all the celebrities and 'influencers' is how bad this is … Continue reading Social media is hurting you more than you know
Why do I have to online date?
Online dating is awful, I mean is there any other word that accurately describes it better? At the starting point it's choosing photographs that you don't pout in, make sure you look like you have friends oh and write something good in your Bio. That's not even the most daunting part of it all, then … Continue reading Why do I have to online date?